Home » Family » Entertainment » 20 Date Night Ideas All Parents Should Try

20 Date Night Ideas All Parents Should Try


Disclosure: *This post may include affiliate links. As an affiliate, I earn from qualifying purchases.

I recently celebrated my 20th anniversary and posted some of my marriage tips. One tip I didn’t include but that I think is really important is to enjoy regular date nights with your spouse. I didn’t include the tip because although my husband and I have enjoyed many great dates together, we have always been bad at making them a regular part of our schedule. The only time we succeeded in sticking to a schedule was when we signed up for ballroom dancing lessons and were committed to a class schedule. We had a blast, by the way, which is why dance class is at the top of the list.

Date Night Ideas

Why Parents Need to Make Time for Date Night

Like most parents, the normal, hectic pace of everyday life and the demands of the kids (and guilt over leaving them) are what interfered with our ability to stick to a once-a-week date night. Sometimes the problem was money. When you have kids, you not only have to afford the date, but also the babysitter which can double the cost of the evening. And then, when we finally talked ourselves into date night, we’d be stuck trying to figure out what we were going to do.

Sure, dinner and a movie is a fun night out, but after two decades of marriage you like to switch things up a little.

Well, I can’t help you be less busy or have more money (actually, I can—that’s the whole purpose of this website so surf around it a little for pointers on those areas), but in a single article, I can give you lots of ideas so that when you and your spouse finally plan date night you won’t abandon the idea just because you don’t know what to do.

20 Date Night Ideas All Parents Should Try

Dance Class Date Night Idea

Whether or not you like dancing, taking a ballroom dance class together is a lot of fun and will bring you and your spouse closer (literally and emotionally). Some of the benefits are that:

  • Signing up for classes locks you into a weekly commitment to stick to date night
  • You’ll learn a new skill that you can break out at weddings and high school reunions
  • It establishes a firm line between the masculine and feminine role (sometimes it’s nice for your husband to feel like he’s in charge)
  • They’re typically not very expensive

No matter where you live, you can probably find a convenient place to take dance classes together. Just do an internet search (e.g. for dance classes in los angeles).  We signed up through our local parks and recreation service, but many dance studios also offer dancing classes for couples. Don’t worry, you won’t be limited to waltzing. Depending on where you live, you might be able to sign up for swing dancing, country line dancing, or salsa lessons.

Any Class

If dancing REALLY isn’t your thing, see if there’s another class you can take that you would both enjoy. Most community centers offer a wide variety including photography, cooking, and learning to speak a foreign language.

Comedy Club

If you live in a big city, you’ll have more options, but even small towns have bars or restaurants that will occasionally feature comedians. This is a fun way to enjoy an evening out that is a variation on dinner and a movie. The livelier environment will encourage more interaction between you and your spouse than a movie theater would. If you can’t find a comedy act, a karaoke bar is another option. The singers won’t be intentionally trying to laugh, though you might laugh more here than at a comedy club.

Picnic

If you don’t want to spend a lot of money on a date, you can enjoy a romantic evening together by simply changing your location. My husband and I love going on picnics together since he loves to be outdoors and I love food. By taking your meal on the go to a quiet, peaceful location, you’ll be able to enjoy each other’s company and talk freely (something that is sometimes hard to do with a bunch of little ears surrounding you).

Romantic Stroll

The purpose of having date night with your spouse is to enjoy alone time with him or her free from distractions and other stressors. Simply walking out your front door can accomplish this. If you want to up the romance factor, drive to a scenic location and stroll there (e.g. historic downtown area, nature trail, or lakeside path).

Geocaching or Letterboxing

It’s like a scavenger hunt for grown-ups. You’ll get to explore new places or discover places you thought you knew in a different way and you’ll work together while you do it.

Wine Tasting

Even if you don’t live in wine country, a lot of restaurants and wine shops offer wine tastings. Not only will you get the opportunity to discover new wine, but you’ll learn more about what your spouse likes and perhaps discover new similarities.

House Hunting

You don’t have to be in the market for a new house to go house hunting. As a couple, this is a great way to discuss what you each envision for your future and to learn about what aspects of daily living are most important to each of you. Have some courtesy for real estate agents though and limit your house hunting to open houses and model homes.

Furniture Shopping

If you can’t find a bunch of open houses to attend, furniture shopping can be just as fun. If you hit antique stores, you might even find a project you can work on together.

Visit a Travel Agent

Planning your future vacations is half the fun of the vacation (and the least expensive part too). Visit a travel agent or go to the library and explore the travel section. Spend your date planning your next vacation or your dream vacation.

Make a Time Capsule

Collect items from around your home or town; take pictures of favorite items, locations, stores; and write a note to your future selves. This is a fun and easy way to make a memento for the future and also to discover more about each other.

Attend a Sporting Event

If you don’t live within driving distance of a major city, it can be just as fun to go to a minor league game or even a local high school sporting event. You don’t have to have a high schooler to cheer on the football team. The camaraderie, lively environment, and built-in entertainment will be a nice change from sitting on the couch at home watching a movie.

Participate in a Sporting Event

If there’s an activity that you both enjoy, do it together, whether it’s tennis, golf, bowling, soccer, volleyball or baseball. You can go out alone together for one night and work on skills (e.g. batting cages or driving range) or you can join a co-ed intramural to ensure regular date nights (and regular exercise!).

Stay In

If you have kids, sometimes having the house to yourselves isn’t just rare—it’s impossible. If this sounds like your house, why not coordinate sleepovers for each of the kids at other people’s houses so you can enjoy an evening in without interruptions or distractions.

See a Live Performance

Whether it’s the live taping of a television show, a production of Phantom of the Opera at the local dinner theater, or the high school drama club’s rendition of West Side Story, no matter where you live you should be able to find a live performance you can attend that will be a deviation from the latest romantic comedy or action film showing at the movie theater.

Festivals or Fairs

Watch your local paper for upcoming festivals, carnivals, and fairs. There’s always plenty of food and entertainment, not to mention many opportunities to people watch, at these events.

Photo Shoot

If you’re like us, you may have a lot of pictures but not very many of them have both you and your spouse in them since one of you is usually holding the camera. Book a photo shoot for just the two of you to give yourselves a reason to get dressed up and to also gather a collection of photographs that include both of you. Don’t want to splurge on a photographer? Head out with a camera and hand it off to strangers in different locations to snap shots of you together.

Stargazing

Head out to the back yard or a local park at night with a cozy blanket, some wine or hot cocoa, and look up at the stars.

Breakfast or Lunch

If your evenings are just too busy, make a standing date for breakfast or lunch. You get the same benefit of alone time with your spouse but at a time that is more convenient for you and for a price that is significantly lower than what you’d pay for dinner out.

Kid Stuff without the Kids

You spend a lot of time finding ways to entertain your kids. Activities are fun for the whole family are equally fun as a couple, but a completely different experience. Here are some examples:

  • Amusement Parks
  • Apple or Berry Picking
  • Arcade
  • Miniature Golf
  • Corn Maze
  • Ice Skating or Roller Skating
  • Zoo

These are some of the things we have done. I’m sure you’ve tried some of them yourself but hopefully you’ve found at least one or two new ideas. I’m always looking for more ideas (20 years is a long time to keep the flame lit!) so please share your favorite date ideas in the comments.

17 thoughts on “20 Date Night Ideas All Parents Should Try”

  1. Pingback: How to Find Time to Date Your Spouse
  2. Pingback: Fun Hobbies for Couples - STILL Happily Married
  3. Pingback: Over 500 Date Night Ideas - STILL Happily Married
  4. Hi, some great ideas for dates here that you don’t read everywhere. I like the idea of house hunting to find your dream house and doing kids stuff without the kids. Now my kids think they are too cool and grown up for kids stuff we don’t even do it WITH the kids LOL (visiting from LOBS)

    Reply
  5. I would definitely consider some of these tips especially that one of my goals this year is to have atleast one date night with my husband every month. It’s already the middle of the month and we haven’t had one yet, ahhh pressure! Hehe thanks for the tips! 😀

    Reply
  6. This is awesome! I am going to try some of these right away. I’ve realized that I have been neglecting my significant other . . .

    By the way, your website is much faster now. I check it every day and I couldn’t help but notice, so whatever you have done – Thanks!

    Reply
  7. These are really great ideas! I’m still very young and unmarried so date nights for me are a bit different. Dinner and a movie is usually my thing but these ideas are lovely to consider for the future.

    Reply
  8. what exactly are date nights haven’t had one since son was born..lol no seriously we haven’t but not to worry he will be grown all to soon then it’ll be just us. till then family movie night is okay as date night

    Reply
  9. I am single and living alone at this point so this really does not pertain to me–however it is a very good idea to go onb fate nights with your spouse and the above are some great suggestions

    Reply
  10. My husband and I spend every Sunday afternoon together sans kids. While we don’t make grand plans, other than lunch, it’s such a great bonding time.

    My neighbor and her husband go on fun date nights that she finds discounts on from Groupon. The shooting range, archery, ect are a few.

    Reply
  11. These are great ideas! We had a date night on Saturday: we went to look at puppies at several different pet stores and then went to dinner 🙂

    Reply
  12. What a great list of ideas. I’m sending hubby the link! In his defense, we signed up for dance lessons and the next week, he got orders to deploy. Ah, well, it’s the thought that counts.

    Reply
  13. Hi Corinne – I love all of these ideas. Our favorite “date” is to hit the antique stores, yard sales, and thrift shops and search for treasures. Hugs, Holly

    Reply
  14. These are some really great ideas! I think classes are good because you are making a time, date and money committment so you have to follow through! Pinned to my Relationships board!

    Reply
  15. I love all of your ideas. My husband and I are frequent visitors of a local improv comedy club. It’s a great night out and the best part is that the show is always different.

    Reply

Leave a Comment

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.